Chastity can be a daunting experience. The thought of locking away your cock behind a cage, unable to touch at will can make even the most masculine of men hesitate. So, I thought I would put together some useful hints and tips to help you to get started on your chastity journey.
- Start with Research – Learn about the basics, such as the types of device, cage hygiene and safety and understand what to expect when locked and how it works.
- Choose the right device – There are many types of devices and many sizes of devices. Choosing the right cage is paramount. To beginners, I always recommend staying comfortable and go with a larger cage. While not as discrete in clothing, the are comfortable, and adjustable perfect for the beginner.
- Communication is Key – If trialing chastity with a partner, discuss the boundaries, desires and a safe word. This is important for ensuring a fun and safe time.
- Slowly does it – Don’t just whack the cage on and say that’s that. Trust me, those early days and weeks are the most difficult. To begin with, try it just for an hour, then two and then attempt a half day and slowly build yourself up. This will allow you to know how to adjust, what underwear (if any) supports better and will allow you to build up your time from just a few hours to week, months and even years!
- Hygiene is priority- Although porn and twitter gives the illusion that once locked, it never comes off, this is false. Cleaniess is hugely important and the cage should be removed at least once daily for a proper clean of the cage and your member. Not cleaning can result is irritation and infection.
- Use a lube – Apply a small amount of lube to prevent chafing. This should be applied both on the O-Ring and also the inside of the cage.
- Experiment gradually – Explore different lock up times and play styles. The strain on your cock when locked can be painful so take it slow and ease into it. Find the right balance for you.
- Be Patient – Adjusting to a cage takes time. Expect trial and error as your figure out what works well for you. Remember, each cock is different, what works for others, may not work for you.
- Emergency get out – As fun as chastity can be, you should always have an emergency key. Many lads will lock this in a safe or even an ice cube tray. Something that is difficult to access but is needed.
- Listen to your body – This is arguably the most important tip! Chastity may cause some discomfort which can be easily adjusted for, however, if you ever get pain, numbness, a change of colour then this is where you need your emergency get out. Remove the cage ass soon as possible if you experience any of this. Failing to do so could cause damage to the skin and in some rare cases severe injury to the balls or cock.
